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April 28, 2008

Time Off For Good Behaviour

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Ever get the feeling you're loosing your marbles?  Oh.  Ya me either.

It's completely crazy around the T household right now and instead of me feeling bad I can't get a decent post up, I'm taking a bloggy break until #1 son's graduation is over with on friday.  Oh what the hell.  I'm giving myself one whole blogging week off.  Time off for good behaviour and all that.

Besides the graduation I have a list a mile long I need to get done.  Maybe even two miles.  I swear I'm not exaggerating when I say that list is three miles long.

Posts I will be writing upon my return....

  1. Sweetie, Honey, Dear.  Which one are you?
  2. Estheticians And The People They Work On
  3. My Favorite Coffee Shop - Going to hell in a hand basket
  4. Joy In Dressing Room of the Fantastic New Boutique She Found Saying to her husband who just happened to call at that moment - AARGH!  I'm so fat!!!
  5. Stop the World.  Gregg Was Right.

And so much more swirling around in this head of mine.

For now I leave you with this little fellow....

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Michael doesn't look like that any more.  But I look at the picture and am reminded of the cuddliest little man you ever wanted to meet.  He still hugs.  But he teases more.  He tells me he teases me so much to show he loves me.  Some days that boy loves his mother a whole lot I tell you.  And he graduates on friday.

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In the blink of an eye he's an 18 year old solid six foot-some mass of a man with a heart so soft it melts your heart some days.  But don't tell him I said that.

April 27, 2008

I Love Quotes and Contests

A few weeks ago I received an email saying a quote in my blog was going to be used in a new blog called Blogtations.  I was curious because I don't ever recall having the wisdom to make up a quote.  I mean I love quotes, I've been collecting quotes since I was probably 17 years old.  But I have never said anything remotely close to what I thought would be quote worthy.  I'm not famous...and quoted...like the great Maya Angelou, I'm not dead...and quoted...like the great Gandhi, I'm not even a comedien...to be quoted...like my favorite man of all time George Burns.

But it turns out anyone can be quoted.  Even the likes of me.  And now you.  Bloggers of the world are being quoted and I'm here to tell you I have spent hours on this blog reading, what I personally think, are some of the greatest quotes of all time.  One being.... If it weren't for this blog all of my best material would be wasted on people who don't appreciate how hilarious I think I am. ~ Sarah and the Goon Squad

Blogtations is having their very first contest.  A Mother's Day Quote Contest and you are invited to enter a quote.  Don't think for a minute you aren't quote worthy because I read a lot of you daily and I assure you you are quote worthy!  I leave you with the contest rules.....

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RULES and STUFF

  • You don't have to be a mom to enter.  The quote just needs to be about motherhood in some way. 
  • You may submit only one quote.  Other quotes sent won't be considered for the contest (though, they might be considered for regular featuring). 
  • The quote must be written by you and published on your blog (and not already featured or in the queue to be featured on Blogtations). 
  • Email me the quote, the permalink of the post it comes from, and please include "contest" in your email's subject title.
  • By submitting your quote you give permission to have it posted on Blogtations, either when the winner is announced or possibly at a later date (with credit and a link to your blog, of course). 
  • The deadline is May 2, 2008, midnight EST.
  • The winning quote and runners up will be determined by a lovely panel of judges: Joy, Heidi, Colleen, Carrie, and Britt (who've been exchanging cocktail recipes, but I promise they'll be sober for the judging) 
  • The winner will be announced May 9, 2008, will receive a $25 Amazon gift certificate and will be highlighted on Blogtations. 
  • Runners up quotes will be posted, too. Others may follow at a later time.

Okay, that's it. Now, go forth and comb your blogs for your best mom quote!

Also, none of this: "I don't think I have any quotes on my blog."  I've had a number of bloggers say that to me then I read a month or two of their archives and guess who's featured on Blogtations?  Great quotes can take some digging for, because we usually write in context. Stand alone quotes aren't always that common.

So, be patient.  Enjoy reading your past posts and send me your best quote about motherhood when you find it!

Good luck!

April 26, 2008

Blog Hopping Fun

I swear I have found the funniest things.  Ok I don't literally swear.  I mean I do swear, but not a lot.  I don't swear like a trucker.  Just....oh never mind.

I am catching up on blog reading.  I have a ton of posts in my head to write up but I'd rather catch up with everyone else before I start writing them and putting them in their files.  Ok technically this is a post but....oh never mind.

In my blog travels I'm reminded why I love blog hopping so much.  For one, like I said before, it allows me to get away from my own life for a bit.  Not that my life is bad, boring or otherwise.  Thankfully I have a very full life.  But it's always nice to 'get away' for a bit and see what people all over the world are doing.  I haven't had the opportunity to travel much in my lifetime....yet....so I am thrilled to 'travel' through the internet.

For example.  In my blog travels today I see some people are picking weeds out of their gardens already.  We still have a lot of snow where I am but also?  I have had six deer wandering through my yard nightly.  Plus one moose.  I have seen the deer numerous times.  I have only seen the moose poop.  I have only seen the moose poop because Mushu brought what I thought was a little chocolate easter egg into the house and I went to take it away from him because he is never allowed to eat chocolate.  He saw me coming and raaaaan with his little chocolate easter egg and dropped it while I was chasing him down the stairs.  I grabbed his little chocolate easter egg and said "AHA!  I got it you little butt.  It's all mine now!!".  Then I looked down in my hand and actually saw the little chocolate easter egg was in fact moose poop.  Only people who have seen moose droppings will understand how easy it is to get a little chocolate easter egg confused with moose poop.  I swear they look exactly alike!  I'm here to tell you there isn't enough bacterial soap in the world for me right now.

Um.  Where was I?  Right.  Blog hopping and why I love it so much.  Ok, so for one I can follow along with people in their journeys.  6 deer + 1 moose = no gardens again for me this year.  But I can enjoy others as they blog about their own gardens.

Secondly, I like when people post goofy things.  I also like reading other people's memes.  There are some fun ones out there.  I used to do a lot of memes but decided in the new year to really limit myself with them.  I also run across things like I just did over at Pamela's The Dust Can Wait.  I see these things and will often click on them just to see what comes up for me.  Today it was this.....

Your Slogan Should Be
Do Me a Favor, Plug Me into Joy

I'm not going to lie.  I just about fell off my chair laughing at it.

April 25, 2008

Full Posts in Feeds it is. I hope.

**Edited to say......are my eyes deceiving me or does the type all of a sudden look smaller on my blog now?  If you notice a difference could you tell me please.  These eyes of mine aren't what they used to be so it could be me not the blog.***

Phew!  What a week!  I wasn't going to post this but I don't know how my day is going to go yet so I wanted to get a post up.  Mostly because I wanted to see if I managed to figure out and change something in typepad so people will now get a FULL post in their feed.

I have to say, as frustrating as getting a new blog design up is, it's been such a fantastic thing for me.  And I have to clarify when I say....frustrated.  To those who have written, no it's definitely not the blog designer who I'm frustrated with.  Oh man, I think I would marry that woman.  If I swung that way.  Which I don't.  Not that there's anything wrong with that.  It's that this was the only way she could work on the blog.  She had to launch it with so many things not done.  I have no idea if it's typepad or the previous design that made it impossible for her to work on without having to launch it first, but trust me when I say she did not want to put it all out there when it wasn't completely done.

I had wanted to have everything up and done and completely finished and ready and THEN launch the new design.  It's not like I'm a wildly popular blog that thousands of people will miss or get ticked off with if I'm not up and running properly.  That doesn't matter to me.  But I'm a planner and an organizer so when things don't go as planned....I get a bit frustrated.

Do I lose sleep over it?  Meh.  Blogging is a verrrrrrry tiny part of my life.  I do it strictly for fun and as much as I have time for.  Which is why I haven't been to anyone's blogs in a few days.  THAT part I miss when I'm as busy as I have been.  I love catching up on everyone's lives.  It takes me away from my own and that's a good thing once in awhile.

The great thing about the new design is that I have learned more in this past week then I EVER thought I would learn when it came to typepad and what it can do.  I have learned about 'pages', I have learned how to re-size photos in Photoshop and how to put them up in the sidebar.  I have learned....hopefully....how everyone gets my posts in their feed, I have learned a bit about HTML code and so so SO much more.  It's been incredible and I can't seem to get enough of it.  I want to learn absolutely everything there is to know about typepad and what it can do for my blog.  I definitely want to learn more HTML.  Well anyway.  Let's just say it's opened up a whole new world for me.

And a huge thank you to everyone who is loving the new design.  I think only a couple people have said they preferred the other design to this one and I'm ok with that.  I absolutely loved the other design too, but it was time for a change.  I was very limited in what I could do with the other design because it was done in an advanced template.  Every smidge of a change had to be done by the blog designer and it's something I hated from the very beginning.  I want control over my own blog thank you very much.  My new blog designer encourages me to learn as much as I can and has been writing stuff out for me.  She insists I will know typepad like the back of my hand before she is through with me.  I mean how great is that??  The woman is a complete miracle worker I tell you.

So now it's off to get ready to get my new haircut.  With a new hairdresser.  I'm a little itchy about it.  Something about being outside of my comfort zone and all that.  What I'm really looking forward to though, is having a completely free evening tonight so I can get caught up on reading everyone in my blogroll!!!

April 24, 2008

You Wanna Piece of Me? Because I'm About In That Mood

So ya.  If I ever mention I want to get a new blog design?  I give you all permission to bash me upside the head.  Hard.

Now.  How about some things I've been doing besides changing my picture a gazillion times on that little 'Joy' box in the upper lefthand corner of my blog.  Which will stay like that now because my daughter picked the picture out and says it looks 'nice' and 'fitting' with my new blog.  And since I love that kid with all my heart and she said nice things about me while she was going through my photos, I'm going to leave that one there for awhile.  Because tomorrow when I'm back to having to be the meany mom and she curses me under her breath?  I can look at that picture and know that for a split second on wednesday, April 23, 2008 I was an okay mom.

And while I'm talking about the new blog design.  To those writing to me and telling me it's confusing every time you click over here because things are always changing?  Tough.  But I'm saying that in my sweetest ever voice.  Stop clicking over for a week and then you won't be confused.  Because if you think it's frustrating for you?  Take a good goddam guess what I'm going through?  But I'm saying that in my sweetest ever voice again.

And now on to other things.....

  1. I decided to finally look into Twitter.  I was invited, I looked, I joined, I like.  Look me up if you're a Twitter..er...too.  I've actually found some great new blogs through it but I'm a bit chicken to comment on the blogs yet.  "Hi I found you through Twitter." sounds so weird to me.
  2. I baked muffins at midnight last night because I couldn't sleep.  Not really interesting.  I just wanted you all to know I made muffins.
  3. In the huge snow storm we had, I got caught up on every single piece of laundry in the house.  Because I was bored.  And going a bit squirrelly.  The kids were scared to come near me for fear I'd take the shirt off their back and throw it in the washer.  Just for something to do.
  4. But have I put my new RAM in yet?  NOOoooo!  Big scaredy cat McBabyPants.
  5. My son graduates in a week.  I haven't had time to be sad because there are a million things to do in preparation for the grad.  What us women go through to get ready for an event I tell you.  Nails, pedicures, waxing, shaving, hair, make-up, fourteen different malls to find the right outfit, proper bra for the right outfit...don't ask...take Michael in to pick out and order a corsage for his date because if I relied on him to do it...his date would be corsageless.....etc. etc. etc.  The men?  Hair cut and fitted for a suit thank you very much. 
  6. This will make two children now graduated in the T home.  One more to graduate next year.  Would anyone like to tell me where the years have gone?  Because I sure as hell can't figure it out.
  7. After 14 years I am actually going to try a new hair dresser this friday.  It's a man.  I have never had a man do my hair before.  To say I'm nervous is an understatement.  Not because he's a man.  I happen to love like men very much.  But because it's someone new and I hate change and I have no idea what he'll do to my hair.  Why oh why did I let my daughter talk me into this??
  8. The great thing is, my daughter just called and will be coming with me to get her hair done as well, but with a different hair dresser.  I mean how freaking great is that?  She will be my comfort zone so if things aren't going well, I can reach right over and strangle her for recommending this place.  Or?  I can give her a big hug because I love my new doo so much.
  9. I have made two dental appointments and ended up cancelling each one.  I am deathly afraid of dentists yet need to go to a dentist for some much needed dental work.  Besides all the dental work I need to get done, I am looking for a whole new smile.  Horribly crooked teeth as a youngster and not having seen my first dentist until I was 16 for braces means I have some pretty ugly teeth up front where there were cavities from years of overlapped teeth.  Add in big freakin Osmond-like genetic teeth and it makes for fun times.  The poor dentist did the best he could and put white fillings up front but I think at 44 I finally deserve a nice smile.  But in order to do this I need to go to a dentist.  There is nothing stopping me but fear alone.  I need to stop being a big baby McBabyPants and get in there already.  Freaken fracken damn it.
  10. I have to write a post stating my husband was right because we are an equal opportunity blog over here at A Spot of T.  I am so happy about this I could just puke.
  11. On monday when I went to get groceries in the snow storm, a guy was following me for what seemed like forever and he was so close I swear I could see the whites of his eyes.  I hate anyone following me that close on a bright sunny day, but in a snow storm you can back right off please.  So I hit the breaks and freaked the guy out a bit.  Ok a lot.  Or I'm guessing a lot.  He certainly looked freaked out as he swerved all over the road.  And don't even write telling me I could have caused an accident that way.  I know ok?  I know.  I made sure there were no vehicles behind us or coming our way.  But he wouldn't pass even when I slowed down to a snails paces so I finally got mad.  You get that close up my butt you better be buying me a drink first.  I'm just saying.
  12. My son has been ticking me off lately.  He's such a great kid 99.99% of the time but he can be such a...such a....such a guy.  I blame his father of course.  But in fairness to Gregg is it really Gregg's fault when he's hardly ever here?  YES!!!
  13. My office is so disorganized and in complete disarray.  I now have things sitting outside the office door because there's no more room in here.  I wonder how much I could have cleaned instead of doing this post and fiddle farting around with my new blog?
  14. Wow.  This could easily be a Thursday Thirteen post.

April 22, 2008

Whoa!! New Blog

Holy crap!  I clicked on here this morning and thought I was on the wrong blog.  Then I thought it looked very familiar.  Then it dawned on me....it's my new blog design!!

I was hoping to get a chance to work behind the scenes to get everything more to how I want it, but I see that didn't happen.  So bear with me everyone as I make the changes I want and get this how I want it.  Might take me a bit.  I'm not very good at this stuff....yet.

***Edited to add***

Ok I probably gave people the wrong idea here.  Let me make this clear. I am not making the changes to my blog.  I would not have the first clue as to how to make a design like this and can barely turn on my computer some days.  I do hope to learn a lot now that I am no longer on the 'advanced template' in typepad but that's a whole other post.

A lovely and patient and wonderful lady named Courtney is working on my blog design and I am just the really annoying client who tries to convey what she wants.  But in a really not very good way so if we could all say a silent 'amen' to Courtney while she tries to read my mind and get through this I would really appreciate it.

Typepad is not cooperating with Courtney so that is why the changes will have to be done out in the open like this.  I feel like I'm changing clothes in front of the whole world, or at least the two people who read my blog, so please bear with us.  She's quick and a true professional so I feel like this process is going to be how I personally like pulling off a bandaid.  Quick and pain free!

 

April 20, 2008

Mother Nature is Sooooo Funny

Out where I live, it always seems to take a little bit longer to get rid of the snow.  I have no idea why.  The City of Edmonton's snow was gone long ago it seems.  If the City of Edmonton's temperature is -20, out in the country to the north here, we will be sitting at  -25...or colder.  Weird.

But today everyone is in the same boat weather-wise I think.  See because we have snow coming down.  And not just a little snow either, we have a lot of it coming down.  Figures.  Michael just took the blade off the quad because surely there won't be any more snow at the end of April like this.  Looks like the blade will be going back on to push some more snow.

The kids and I cleaned up the cold room a couple of weeks ago and while we were at it, put a lot of the winter stuff away.  My winter boots right along with everything else.  So today when I finally decided to go out and get the paper, it was running shoes and no mitts.  I did however find a toque in the mudroom so off Mushu and I went to get the paper.  Oh and a toque is a hat.  I've had people ask so thought I would put that in there.

The below video was made with Flip's movie making program so for some reason it looks like it's getting dark out with the particular movie I picked.  It wasn't get darking out, but you get the idea as to how much snow we've been getting here the past two days.  Not even a week ago the snow was just about gone from the yard and the driveway was bone dry and you could see the lovely black asphalt.  Today?  Not so much.  There are times I can't even see the neighbour's house across the road because the snow is coming down so hard.  It's amazing really.  Gotta love Mother Nature.  She certainly does have a sense of humor.

I was going to head out and run some errands today but instead I've been in the house drinking wine and getting caught up on reading some blogs.  I can *hic* thank Mother Nature for that I suppose. 

April 17, 2008

A Glorious 'Snowy' Roadtrip

Tuesday I went on a roadtrip.  Aims invited me to come for a visit and when details were being discussed she mentioned she knew of a great spot and she'd love to go on a picnic.  Now I have to say I haven't gone on a picnic in ages.  When the kids were younger I would pack up a nice big lunch and we would head out for some unknown destination and sit and picnic but like I said, it's been years now.  So what the hell right?  We both packed up what we wanted to eat, I drove to Aim's place tuesday morning, picked her up and the journey began.

The day entailed much more then just these pictures, but this will give you an idea of the fun the two of us had......

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That is Aims in the shelter above.  Isn't she pretty?  I didn't ask for permission to post her picture so she will have to remain the mysterious writer Aims from the Big Blue Barn.  Oh, and why does the picture look so....fuzzy?  Almost like my camera lens had something like snow on it?  Because Aims took me up to the hills and darn it if it wasn't snowing like crazy up there.  And I mean it was coming down good too.

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Did that stop us from having a picnic though?  Not at all.  We took shelter under cover, pulled out the blanket and laid it on the picnic table and sat and froze our asses off.  I mean sat and ate and talked and laughed and had a fantastic time.  Ok we did freeze our asses off too, but neither of us cared.  Much.  I looked over at Aims at one point and she was talking away, but shivering so much, I burst out laughing.  I'm a compassionate person like that.

Now we could have just sat in the truck to keep warm but what fun is that.  The spot Aims took me to was so beautiful there's no way I wanted to stay inside a truck.  Yes we were cold but it's amazing what two different people will do in situations like this.

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Aims was determined to make a fire to warm the two of us up.  There was wood in the shelter, there was even paper.  But there were no matches or anything to light a fire with.  As you can see by the picture above, she decided the lighter from my vehicle and a rolled up newspaper would do the trick.  Oh how I wanted to capture her in a photo as she raaaaaan with that newspaper over to our shelter to start the wood on fire.  But I didn't get the chance because try as she might, she couldn't get that newspaper to catch fire.  Although darn it anyway I give Aims three gold stars for making that newspaper.....smoke a little.

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I on the other hand decided a fire was for sissy's.  So while Aims was off in my truck determined to make fire.......I made a snowman.  And if you are wondering where the snowman's cute little buttons are that are usually down the front of a snowman?  I didn't have a chance to put them on.  Because right after I put the little fellow's hat on...my fingers fell off from frostbite.

I can't remember how long we stayed there, but it was glorious.  Then it was time to head back.

Stop!  Stop stop stop!!  That was Aims as we were coming back down from the mountain.  I slid to a stop, parked on the side of the VERY muddy road and she jumped out, all the while telling me to grab my camera.  Now I don't usually let anyone boss me around, but I could tell she meant business.  So I allowed her to boss me just this once.  By the time I got my camera out of the back, slipped and slid through the mud and made my way over to where she was.....

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....the above picture is all I managed to capture.  It's a bird.  An obviously huge bird mind you, because we were definitely very far away and to be able to even see it is something, but still.  A bird.  I risked life and limb....not really.....because I thought she had seen a bear or something.  I risk life and limb....not really....for only four legged wildlife creatures.  Not two legged feathered creatures.  And remember?  It's snowing like crazy out.  How this picture even sort of turned out is beyond me.  You took a step and sinked down in the mud.  Vehicles went by and I have no doubt they thought these two women were nuts.

This will be the third time I have met Aims and it was a complete treat to catch a glimpse into her life.  One day I will write more on a fabulous building we stopped at and the hidden treasures inside this glorious building.  But for now I will just extend a huge thank you to Aims for a wonderful day full of conversation and laughter.  It's a rare thing for me to find someone who I really enjoy spending time with, but you rock Aims.  This quirky insane personality of mine scares many people off but you didn't seem to be phased by it at all.  You are a rare person indeed.  Here's to many years of friendship my dear new found friend. 

April 16, 2008

Don't Worry. I'm Not Eating The Deer Poop. No Honest.

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Me sneaking around the corner of the garage and catching Mushu going for the deer poop:  Mushu?  What are you doing pup?

Mushu whipping around and very innocently giving me that 'look':  What?  Well I was definitely not going to go eat any of that deer poop on the sidewalk beside the house.  Because even though it is my favorite snack ever I know you don't like me to eat it.  It is very wrong to eat deer poop.  Yucky.  Patooey.  So I wasn't going to go do that if that's what you're thinking.  Even though it's good and I really really reallllly like it.  Don't you have something to do in the house now?

April 15, 2008

We Have A Lot To Cover Here Folks

Gregg was home this past weekend which meant very little time on the computer.  Yesterday I was gone all day and today I'm on an all day roadtrip.  I have made it to every single 69 participants for Fun Monday.  Some twice because I kept having to stop and have a life and then come back and try and figure out where I left off.

Alrighty then.

I didn't leave anyone hanging on this post.  The post where Gregg stated I was right.  I was excited about Gregg admitting I was right, but I deliberately left out what it was Gregg said I was right about.  Because when someone according to him is never wrong and makes a statement like "You are right."  Does it really matter what I was right about?  No it does not.  What matters is he said I was right.  And this is what we must focus on people. 

Next.

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A lot of people emailed me and wanted to know if I used Photoshop on the pictures from Fun Monday yesterday to frame them.  I definitely used Photoshop on the pictures to tweak them, but on those particular pictures I didn't use Photoshop to frame them or use those cool fonts on them.  In my internet travels awhile ago I found a program I thought was super cool and decided Fun Monday would be a perfect time to try the program out a bit more.  It's called Picnik.  Which is what I used on the above picture as well.  It's free to sign-up and use and of course there is also an advanced version which charges a fee.  The free version is pretty darn good though and if you're looking for something a little different to use with your pictures, I would highly recommend the Picnik program.  And if you sign up and can spend under an hour there, can you write back and tell me how you did it?  Because so far every time I click over there, it's a good two hour play time for me.

Next is the PEI picture from yesterday that so many people emailed me on because they didn't get it.  This was more for my Angel buddies.  Past and present Canadian ChemoAngels will be getting together in Prince Edward Island in June.  I am beyond excited and counting down the days to finally be able to meet these Angels and give them a hug, so I had to put the PEI picture in there.  Some of the Angels used to read my blog, or still read my blog, or were so bored they fell into a deep coma from reading my blog, but I think about those ladies every single day.  I remember the gang we used to be and the fun we used to have and they are all very special ladies to me.  And I get to meet them in June.  Finally!  And I'm excited.  Pee my pants excited even.

And finally the yellow picture with the old building from Fun Monday as well.  One of my favorite pictures I ever took with my film camera.  A lot of you had it right.  It is indeed a yellow canola field and it is a field that isn't too far from where I live.

I will often get up in the morning, pack a lunch for Mushu and I, bring some tea for me, water for Mushu, load up my camera bag and tripod and take a day and drive.  This particular day I decided to take the gravel roads out where I live and one road lead to another and Mushu and I were having a great time.  At one point I came up over a small hill and saw this field and instantly stopped my truck.  To say it was a breathtaking sight is an understatement.

I had to walk into the field a bit because I wanted to get that old building in there but it was well worth trying not to get stung by the thousands of bees in the field that day.

The picture is special to me because it was one of those days where everything was right with the world.  It was so quiet and peaceful, so bright and beautiful and as perfect a moment as they come.